Wednesday, May 8, 2013

Feminist Book Club - Half the Sky



Better late than never, eh? For our third book club choice, we've gone with a reader's suggestion, "Half The Sky" -- and I have to say that I'm only 50 pages or so into it and I'm hooked!b I'm kind of bummed every time I have to put the book down, which is a good feeling to have when it comes to books.


From two of our most fiercely moral voices, Half the Sky: Turning Oppression into Opportunity for Women Worldwide is a passionate call to arms against our era’s most pervasive human rights violation: the oppression of women and girls in the developing world. With Pulitzer Prize-winning journalists Nicholas Kristof and Sheryl WuDunn as our guides, we undertake an odyssey through Africa and Asia to meet with extraordinary women struggling there. Among them is a Cambodian teenager sold into sex slavery and an Ethiopian woman who suffered devastating injuries in childbirth.

Drawing on the breadth of their combined reporting experience, Kristof and WuDunn depict our world with anger, sadness, clarity and, ultimately, hope. They show how a little help can transform the lives of women and girls abroad. That Cambodian girl eventually escaped from her brothel and, with assistance from an aid group, built a thriving retail business that supports her family. The Ethiopian woman had her injuries repaired and in time became a surgeon.

Through these stories, Kristof and WuDunn help us see that the key to economic progress lies in unleashing women’s potential. They make clear how so many people have helped to do just that, and how we can each do our part. Throughout much of the world, the greatest unexploited economic resource is the female half of the population. Countries such as China have prospered precisely because they emancipated women and brought them into the formal economy. Unleashing that process globally is not only the right thing to do; it’s also the best strategy for fighting poverty.

Deeply felt, pragmatic and inspirational, Half the Sky is essential reading for every global citizen.

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We hope you'll join us and grab a copy today.  A big thanks to Shasta for her recommendation.  You spoke and we listened!

 
The Basics:
1. FBC is hosted by the Jennifers: Grimmricksen & Grits and Moxie.
2. We will read one book a month & will announce the chosen book on the first of each month (fingers crossed)
3. The final book selection will be made by us, but we LOVE suggestions!
4. Our choices will cover a lot of ground: fiction/non-fiction, classic/modern, etc. We want to read a wide variety of work focusing on issues particularly important to women. Sexuality, body issues, motherhood... all of it is fair game. We want to expose folks to work that they might not have thought to read on their own or books that have been gathering dust at the bottom of a massive 'to read' list.

Feminist Book Club




*I feel like I need to point out that you don't need to dedicate a whole post to the club or a book review or whatnot. Linking up here simply means that you plan on reading the book this month -- and we want to come by and say hello to fellow feminists!. At the end of the month, if you do decide to post a review or something, please feel free to come back and link up to that specific post so that we can all go and read it!*

Monday, May 6, 2013

DIY Skirt

Say hello to the first successful piece of clothing I've finished in years: I call it my "Stitch In Time" skirt. It makes a bit more sense when you see that the print is of vintage sewing machines and thread. Get it? Yup, I told you I'm clever.

I put this skirt together sans pattern and through a fair amount of trail and error. There were many seams ripped and a zipper placed twice before it was finally finished. It really took much much much longer than it ever should have. Did I mention this was the first bit of clothing I've finished in years? I'm cearly off my game.

Anywho, as you can see, it's a high-waisted gathered skirt, that hits below the knees and is fully lined. It was a pain in the ass, frankly, but it fits great and is super comfy. Sooo I may have worn it two days in a row. What? It was the weekend.

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By the way, does anyone else have a soundtrack to their sewing sessions? No? Just me? *shrug* Each project seems to have it's own unique playlist (different from my usual stuff) and this skirt took a whole lot of Loretta Lynn and a little Tammy Wynette thrown in for good measure.

Now I'm off to cut some fabric for a few more skirts...

*This skirt was inspired by the always amazing Alex. You should all head on over to her blog & have her make you a skirt. The one she made me a few months back is probably the nicest piece of clothing I own!**

Sunday, May 5, 2013

Julep Subcription Box - May

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For the month of May, I think Julep caught some Gatsby fever (that comes out this month, right?). The packaging is all black and gold and very art deco -- all around beautiful. I'm a sucker for well done packaging and this definitely gets the thumbs up from me. I'm trying to figure out a good reason to not throw out the boxes other than they're pretty.

Lip Scrub - Am I the only one who immediately thought about the golden snitch from Harry Potter? *shrug* I'm a nerd. I'm not sure how effective it us, but it smells & taste liked baked deliciousness and that's enough to convince me to keep using it. I love me some red lipstick, but it really dries out my lips, so I hope this will help.

Lipstick - Tiny, but gorgeous. I received the New York trio of Tea for Two, Satin Doll, and Lady In Red and I think they're all lovely. The red is a classic, the nude is just about that, and the pink has just the right amount of color for my lips. Plus, they all smell like orange creamcicle! I can't speak to how well they wear yet, but I have my fingers crossed. At first I was kind of disappointed that they weren't full sized, but then I realized that I never finish off a tube anyhow, so it really isn't an issue.

Mascara - First off, I love the modern design. I've only worn it once and I wasn't blown away, but it does the job and that's enough for now.

Hair Pins - Sweet & simple, but a little girlier than my usual look. However, I use bobby-pins just about every day and these might be a nice way to accessorize.



So overall, I'm really quite happy with the box for May, which was a relief because I haven't been particularly keen on the last few months. It seems pretty hit or miss on whether or not it's worth the $20 a month, but that's why I love that I can preview the products & then decide whether or not to order each month.

Saturday, May 4, 2013

FBC - The Whole Woman (Review)



Hey, remember how we said we were going to read "The Whole Woman" by Germaine Greer during the month of April? Yeah, well, I kind of sort of failed. I made it about 2/3 of the way through and even that was a bit of a struggle.

I'm still trying to (slowly) work my way through it, but there are just too many other books calling my name to put too much pressure on myself to finish a book that I don't love. I really wanted to love it, but I just didn't. It felt like a lot of her information was outdated (it was written more than a decade ago, so that's not exactly her fault) and that kept nagging at me as I was reading her statistics and arguments. Plus, the information was pulled from UK data, which lead to a bit of a disconnect for me (being an ignorant American and all).

Overall, her concept of what makes someone a feminist seemed very narrow and wasn't something I found myself relating to, which was disappointing. I feel like a terrible feminist for admitting that this book wasn't what I expected *hangs head in shame*

Did anyone else have trouble with this one or was it just me? For those of you who enjoyed it, what did I miss? Enlighten me!


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The Basics:
1. FBC is hosted by the Jennifers: Grimmricksen & Grits and Moxie.
2. We will (do our best to) read one book a month & will announce the chosen book at the beginning of each month (fingers crossed)
3. The final book selection will be made by us, but we LOVE suggestions!
4. Our choices will cover a lot of ground: fiction/non-fiction, classic/modern, etc. We want to read a wide variety of work focusing on issues particularly important to women. Sexuality, body issues, motherhood... all of it is fair game. We want to expose folks to work that they might not have thought to read on their own or books that have been gathering dust at the bottom of a massive 'to read' list.

Feminist Book Club




*I feel like I need to point out that you don't need to dedicate a whole post to the club or a book review or whatnot. Linking up here simply means that you plan on reading the book this month -- and we want to come by and say hello to fellow feminists!. At the end of the month, if you do decide to post a review or something, please feel free to come back and link up to that specific post so that we can all go and read it!*

Tuesday, April 30, 2013

Vanity - Aren't You Plaid To See Me?

See what I did there? I'm hilarious, right? I Thought so.

Anywho... there are so few options out there for longer vintage style skirts and dresses, that I really have gone a bit overboard as of late on the clothing front. Plus, with summer coming, more skirts and dresses are going to be vital -- I don't do shorts. The husband isn't very happy with me and I know I'm entirely deserving of the mild admonishments, but I saw this dress awhile back and I couldn't stop myself.

As soon as I saw it, I knew I had to have it. I specifically envisioned wearing it to Disneyland and frolicking with my family in a few weeks. Oddly specific? Sure, but eh, whatever.

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On a side note, I love these cheap Oxford style flats, but they make my feet super stinky.

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Even toddlers photobomb, whatcha gonna do?

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Dress - eshakti   //  Shoes - Shoe Carnival (I think)  //  'G' Locket - Etsy

(I know I've been a bit eshakti obsessed as of late and that seems to be the cool blogger thing to do, but I've never been gifted anything or compensated in any way and I'm still quite enamored with the clothing.) 

Monday, April 29, 2013

Five Things

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Shirt - Old Navy  //  Skirt - eshakti  //  Flats - Target (similar)

Trish, the super awesome gal over at JellyBones, tagged me and according to internet blogging rules, I'm kind of obligated to partake. So it's a good thing I was already keen on taking part. Plus, I've been rather inarticulate as of late, so this is the perfect excuse to use some actual words in a post.

So five things... five things about me.

1. I'm a contradiction. I've been told I can be a bit cold and tactless & then emotional and maybe a little neurotic. I can be laid back and then controlling. I'm very organized, but also a total mess. I crave adventure, but can be obsessively cautious. What can I say, I'm a blue-red (for you Color Code folks). I'm pretty sure I drive my husband -- and the rest of my friends and family -- crazy.

2. I don't cook. I can follow a recipe, but I don't enjoy it in the least. If the husband doesn't cook, I pretty much survive on sandwiches & cereal.

3. Sleep is pretty much my favorite thing in the world. No seriously, I will choose to sleep over just about anything else: time with my husband, food, etc etc. One of the most difficult (and obvious) things about having a kid, is the loss of sleep. For someone who can easily sleep 12-16 hours on an average night, parenthood has been difficult on my sanity.

4. I grew up secular and consider myself agnostic. I went to a Baptist school for a few years when I was really young because it was the local private school, but that's it as far as proper religious schooling goes. At the time I was really into it and even named our dog Mary because the Mother of Jesus was just that cool. In junior high I was really fascinated by Wicca and managed to terrify quite a lot of my classmates by being really open about it.  Then toward the end of high school, I was enamored with the LDS church. I took the missionary discussions, dated an upstanding LDS guy, went to church, etc etc. In the end I just couldn't be part of something that went against so many of my personal beliefs. I've looked into a few other religions (Judaism, Catholicism, Buddhism, etc), but nothing has ever really clicked for me.

I'm open and believe in something more than myself, but I don't know if that's some all knowing deity (doubtful), a life force that connects all of humanity, or space aliens.... and I don't reckon I'll ever really know. But hey, I'm ok with that... it keeps me searching.

5. I don't believe in "soulmates" or "true love". Harsh? Maybe. What I do believe in is hard work & communication. That whole "All you need is love" business? I think it's rubbish. Love is very important, but not nearly enough to maintain a positive relationship. I know that goes against everything that women are supposed to believe or something, but I'm a realist.